Strength. The last card I drew in a reading two days ago, after my beloved pet chinchilla, Sascha, passed away at 3.5 years…a mere third of the average lifespan. The cause is still somewhat of a mystery to me, though I’d been treating her on and off with antibiotics for the past few months. Nonetheless, I wish I could have done more.
Though I failed to predict her death (I hadn’t attempted any readings on the subject), I did perform a reading the night of her death as a sort of consolation to myself. Naturally, it did little to help, but little is the most I could have expected under the circumstances. I don’t profess to believe in an afterlife per sé – I’m more of a reincarnation kind of girl, though my views on the subject are still somewhat underdeveloped. They run somewhere along the lines of the conscious mind outliving the body – and while the consciousness (or spirit) doesn’t specifically relocate to a “better place,” it remains an unseen part of the world in which it lived…which to me constitutes its becoming not only one with the world (and in most cases, memory), but an influence on what comes next. As such, I like to think that every new being brought into the world exhibits some of the qualities of one that came before.
Due to my success with the Morgan-Greer Tarot recently, I decided to use it again (I am hoping to make it one of my main reading decks, along with a few carefully-chosen others). My first card drawing followed a question somewhere along the lines of, what message does Sascha want to give me? Ironically, I drew the High Priestess. For those of you who don’t know, the High Priestess is the master of the arcane – that is, keeper of secret knowledge and inner wisdom. I’d be lying if I said this lack of a straight answer didn’t annoy me upon first meditation. But the deck was right: this wasn’t about asking questions directly of a dead loved one. It was about coming to terms with the knowledge and wisdom I already had inside me. I rephrased my question, but given that I was a bit peeved and upset, was not clear enough with myself on what I wanted to know. Thus, instead of discovering the state of my chinchilla, I uncovered the state of myself: the Eight of Swords. Here, of course, we have a woman bound and wrapped in a blindfold, surrounded by a pillar of swords. This indicates a feeling of being helpless and trapped – the last thing I wanted Sascha to feel. I quickly realized, though, that this wasn’t the case, and that the cards were simply telling me I was reflecting my bad feelings onto the situation, and having trouble accepting any message I was anticipating. The thing about the Eight of Swords is it’s usually an unnecessary or voluntary entrapment, which is indicated by the blindfold (or in some decks, a woman locked away and holding the key in her hand). This card reflected my lack of faith – in myself, in the cards, in a good outcome (one that would be a given if I did, indeed, believe in an afterlife). I took a moment to relax (and, naturally, to renew my faith in my medium – which was, essentially, having a conversation with me). When I’d come to terms with what I was feeling I asked about Sascha, and drew the final card. Finally, an answer to the question I meant to ask – how was she feeling? The Six of Cups – in my experience, the playground of memory; of sharing in the past with oneself or with loved ones.
I cried, a little (okay, I’ve cried a lot in the past couple days). If I wanted my pet to feel anything, it would be reminiscence for the past, for her life, and all the good in it – something I, too, have been doing. Two little children playing among the flowers is a draw back to childhood, to happy moments. It may have taken me a while to get that answer, but in the end, I had needed those other cards to talk me through my grief and cynicism before I could.
Here is what I remember: a joyously fat, fluffy ball of the softest variety with a long, furry tail; someone who ran fast and bounced off the walls, and jumped high enough to reach my countertops; someone who got excited every time I shook the peanut jar, and every time I didn’t…who ran marathons on a squeaky wheel and swam rolling miles in a bowl of dust; someone who refused nearly every vegetable and gobbled up peaches and grapes and Skittles…who conquered the outdoors like a nervous stealth bomber – running fast, stopping abruptly, with no regard for direction. Someone who poked her head out of my purse in the bookstore and whimpered in her sleep when she had a nightmare; who lunged at any cat or dog that gave her trouble, who quickly learned evasive maneuvers and eventually, how to cuddle. Someone who begged like a puppy for treats and could still be aloof as a cat. Someone who bit my ex-boyfriend’s nipples (good girl) and fell asleep on my boyfriend’s butt. Someone bright-eyed at night and grumpy in the morning, who chewed on zippers and earrings and pillows. Someone who died in time to save me the hassle of moving with her, and someone on whom I’d have spent any amount of money to make sure she’d come along.
When I drew Strength, its message wasn’t the only thing I noticed. It is most often the only card in a deck in which an animal is being tamed – and in this case, I’d say, even stroked, loved. I promised Sascha someday to get another chinchilla. I believe what I believe about death for many reasons. Every time I get a new pet, I recognize something much older.
Sascha was my best companion through college. She will be sorely missed.
That draw ended up being the King of Swords (though appropriate, another court card) – a bit of a jab from my tarot deck, telling me to keep my cool and stick with the god damn card I’m given. Here, we have yet another master of his domain: this time, intellect. Here we have a man who reaps what he sows (symbolized by three strands of wheat wrapped around his sword), and knows how to solve his problems. He is strong of mind and efficient, able to tackle nearly any task with mental skill, determination and grace. Together, these two cards depict a strong-willed individual who can triumph over struggle and work through problems and make sense of ideas that carry him through life and studies.
Now, here’s where it got particularly interesting. I did a private reading for myself on a pressing issue I needed to deal with. I needed to ask my significant other a question – one I’d had in mind for some time – and was thinking of doing it the following evening. It was a rather serious question (not to mention one a girl is not conditioned to ask), and one that could forever change a relationship. I was afraid to do it, and wanted some input as to whether or not it was a good idea, and what I could expect. The card that randomly appeared on the bottom of the deck following the previous reading was the Two of Cups – a clear reminder of the situation at hand. I asked the deck what kind of reaction I could expect – what the outcome would be – and began to shuffle. Toward the end, a card leapt out of the deck: the Nine of Wands, telling me that I was close to something – a successful resolution, a goal I was trying to reach. I finished shuffling, cut, and lifted the one card that would assuage my fears: the Lovers. I nearly gasped, and breathed a sigh of relief, trying not to look too surprised – after all, the tarot knows what I’m thinking . . . we are one and the same. My next and last draw was the Nine of Cups: happiness and wish fulfillment. The best of readings I could have received, and enough to give me the courage I needed.
